(1) Something I’ve learned:
How to hold my own, stick up for myself, and take care of business.
You might see me as a soft-hearted soul. (I’m not sure – it’s always hard to reflect on yourself, and especially difficult to understand how others see you or would describe you). Here in Spain I’ve been dubbed a cupcake, “my sweet”, etc. Sometimes it frustrates me, because I don’t think people take me seriously. But I know I’ve changed. Culture and life changes you. Sometimes for worse, but I think generally for the better. What doesn´t kill you makes you stronger?
(2) Something I love about Madrid:
People-watching.
I love trying to understand the ins and outs and ups and downs of the nuances of peoples’ lives. Because it’s often el conjunto (*all of these factors combined*, or however you say it in English – see something number 3) of these nuances that can tell their life story.
When people are conked out on the Metro. Aren’t the worried about where they are going? That they’ll miss their stop? Aren’t they going somewhere important? Or aren’t they worried about how they look? I mean this gorgeous little Latina is sitting in front of me on the metro and she’s wearing a perfectly combined outfit, long dark tresses, and perfectly smudged black liner. But because of her sleeping position she’s wearing 3 chins.
But maybe people-watching at cafés is the best.
People drinking two solos (*espresso*), with vengeful faces, not inviting even an hola. What did life throw them?
A dreadlocked backpacker with a journal, a café con leche and multiple pastries, and perfect change. Where did you come from, where did you go?
A young good-looking fella, café con leche, a croissant, and flippers on the chair beside him. Friendly banter with the barista. Hey good looking! Whatcha got cooking?
(3) Something about language:
Leaning new languages is an incredible human feat.
I once saw my life as two lives – the hispanohablante and the anglophone. Home and abroad. Family and family-away-from-home. But after experiencing these two worlds separately in Mexico, Costa Rica, Panama, Nicaragua, Sevilla, and Madrid – I’ve come to know that they are inseparable. There aren’t multiple souls living in me. Rather multiple parts of my soul infuse other parts of the world. I left them behind. Once I love and learn, gentle flakes of my spirit roam freely among those beloved people. And they often send me memories and reminders.
They make me stronger, because my being is fortified in more than one place.
So sometimes when my sentence comes out in half Spanish and half English, you will understand why. And I hope you’ll have a little mercy, and find this a lovely curiosity. And more so, I pray you can share in this experience with me. Because it´s life changing, and fulfilling.
(Note: [to be disregarded if you aren’t a Harry Potter fan] I just reread what I wrote and it sounds like I’ve created Horcruxes. Haha. Is there a positive and lovely opposite to Horcruxes? I mean, what would you call a piece of your soul that gently flakes off the soul inside you, so as to help you live life with the most adventure and love possible. Opinions?… Go!)
(4) Something about current events:
Yesterday, Hugo Chavez died. I have a degree in Latin American studies, so I love keeping tabs on politics, and economy, and culture. Lately, I haven’t been very good at reading the news. But this pretty big news made me realize how important it is to keep up with current events. In 40 years when our children or grandchildren are studying and relating to history they are going to ask us questions – and we’re going to have stories.
And those stories will be carried down for generations because of or voice.
(5) Something about hard days:
Fight.
Dive into unknowns.
Don’t go looking for trouble; life brings enough trouble of its own.
But when trouble comes, wait until it’s about to put its giant hairy arms around you, and leap out of its reach. Trouble might be huge, but you are fast. And when you fight and demand your humble, immortal body to win, your green skin will peel back, and you’ll be new and prepared for every battle to come.
(Haven’t you ever read The Frog Prince? But by golly, I’m definitely not talking about the Disney version – big let down, D.)
Somethings make us observant thinkers who have the power to change the world.
What do you learn from somethings?
(image via Bailey Nickerson)